We’ve all been there—returning home after a grueling day of work, tired and burdened with tasks, with the sole desire to unwind and relax. The temptation to indulge in a favorite TV show or scroll through social media for hours is strong.
However, as binge-watching or mindless scrolling becomes a routine, a sense of dissatisfaction lingers. Is this the way we truly want to spend our evenings?
Let’s explore alternative ways to make our evenings more enjoyable and fulfilling.
Few words about TV and Social Media
It has become a new norm in our lives—endless TV show binging, prolonged sessions of computer gaming, and endless scrolling through Instagram reels.
While these activities are relatively recent phenomena, we often fail to grasp the consequences they may hold fully.
Intrinsically though, we all sense that something is off with such a way of spending our precious lifetime.
All these activities share common threads –
- they provide a temporary escape from reality,
- means to stave off boredom, and
- a way to numb our feelings.
As we recognize this dilemma, we’re confronted with a choice:
Do we want to live our lives in a state of oblivion, immersed in imaginary worlds, or do we want to be the main characters of our own reality?
I trust you’re choosing the latter.
so how can we use our evening time better?
Evenings, by nature, tend to be the most vulnerable time of the day. Our energy levels dip and our minds may not be as sharp as they were earlier.
It’s a winding-down period, yet it holds the potential to be a precious pocket of time outside of work—the time that truly belongs to us.
The question arises: How can we make the most of these evenings? How can we infuse them with more events that are fun, exciting, and fulfilling?
Let’s ponder some ideas.
groom yourself
Caring for our bodies is a truly fulfilling experience. Picture spending an evening solely focused on pampering yourself, whether you choose to do it at home or opt for professional services. The core concept is to show some love and attention to your wonderful body.
The ideas include:
- Taking a long hot shower or intricate bubble bath with aromatic soap bombs, essential oils, candles, and Epsom salts.
- Performing a session of body and face hair removal (epilation, waxing, threading)
- Receiving a professional or DIY facial (steaming, extraction, exfoliating, face massage, mask)
- Getting a manicure, pedicure, or a haircut
- Going to the spa
declutter
Declutter is the act of simplifying your space (organizing) and getting rid of excess belongings that no longer serve you or bring joy.
It is a very satisfying and therapeutic experience that can provide a sense of clarity and relief.
Declutter or organization can be physical, mental, and digital.
Physical Declutter
Clearing away physical clutter is about removing things that distract you and creating a space that helps you be more productive, creative, and at peace.
It includes:
- Organizing drawers and closets
- Rearranging furniture
- Going through the wardrobe and giving up the clothes you don’t wear anymore
- Cleaning and organizing your office space or working desk
- Attending small chores that have been pending for a while (e.g. ironing those few pieces of clothing, cleaning silver jewelry, scheduling dry cleaning)
Mental Declutter
Mental decluttering is a dedicated period for
- evaluating your present circumstances,
- gaining clarity, and
- aligning your goals and priorities.
It’s a process of creating room for positive and productive thoughts that propel you forward in life.
Examples of mental decluttering and organization activities are:
- Goal planning
- Calendar organization
- Visual board creation
- Assessment of your current financial situation (tracking your income and expenses, creating a budget, etc)
Digital Declutter
It’s not just our physical surroundings that need tidying up. As we spend more and more time in the digital realm this space requires attention too.
When our digital world is in disarray our mental space gets clogged too.
In order to avoid mental chaos we can:
- Delete old emails, images/videos, files and documents
- Reorganize folders and files on your computer
- Uninstall apps that you don’t use anymore
- Unsubscribe from unnecessary letters and accounts
- Unfollow accounts and groups that don’t serve you anymore
go physical
As much as it may sound counterintuitive exercising is one of the best ways to relax and do get this life energy back. It is all well supported by the science that physical activity improves our mood, and makes us lighter and happier.
So, you can absolutely take advantage of your evening times to realize your perfect body goals and get in shape. You can go to the gym, hit group classes, or customize your own at-home routine.
There are millions of options for a workout type and choosing the one for you is the key.
take care of your mental health
“Our mental health is everything. It is the foundation upon which our overall well-being rests. “
If you are confused, torn apart, lost, and discouraged it can cast a shadow on every aspect of your life – your relationships, work, and personal fulfillment.
TV and social media add more chaos to our already fogged and cluttered minds. And if we are opting to spend precious evening hours in front of the blue screen we literally leaving ourselves no chance.
Instead, here are your alternative activities:
- Meditation ( to increase your awareness)
- Sound healing (to deal with anxieties and worries)
- Breathing exercises (for staying present and calm)
- Journaling (to heal your inner child and gain insights)
- Listening to podcasts (to inspire different mindsets)
- Reading a self-help book (to encourage self-improvement)
- Doing nothing (to embrace boredom and to rediscover yourself)
- Doing somatic exercises (to work through past traumas)
get a hobby
Engaging in hobbies offers a fulfilling alternative to the endless scrolling of social media reels, posts, and stories.
Hobbies come in various forms; some don’t even require leaving the house or involving other people.
Activities like
- knitting,
- sewing,
- gardening,
- painting,
- playing an instrument, or
- writing
can be pursued independently.
On the other hand, some hobbies involve joining courses or groups, encouraging social interaction, and a change of scenery.
Examples include:
- Joining tennis or pickleball clinic,
- Get a membership in a dancing school,
- Get involved in a volunteering club,
- Attend cooking classes,
- Sign up for an evening group therapy,
- Try acting classes.
educate yourself
Have you been longing for a change in your life?
Your evenings offer the perfect opportunity for self-improvement and growth. So, how about utilizing this time to lay the foundation for the transformation you desire?
Taking an extra course or learning a new skill is like building the stepping stones that will take you toward something new and exciting in life.
Some ideas for educating yourself can be:
- Learning a new language
- Mastering some skills for office work (speed typing, excel, data analysis)
- Delving into digital marketing strategies
- Taking online classes in something completely new (coding or web design)
monetize your time
Thanks to the viral world we live in, opportunities to earn extra income abound, especially in the digital realm. Your free evenings provide an excellent window to expand your financial abilities.
Here are some innovative ideas that the new digital world offers us.
In your free time, you can:
- Write and publish ebooks
- Create an app
- Start a blog
- Create a website or online shop
- Make online cash by participating in surveys
- Try yourself in content creating
- Do some delivery or ride share hustle (amazon, uber, doordash, instacart, etc)
- Tutor online
- Create your own online course
Think of food
Why not shake up your evening routine with a burst of creativity in the kitchen?
Instead of settling for a routine dinner, venture into the world of intricate dishes you’ve never tried before.
Baking can also be a delightful and creative evening activity that not only fills your home with enticing aromas but also adds a fun touch to your night.
Another food-related activity to consider is meal planning or prepping.
Take some time in the evening to think about your weekly menu and dedicate effort to cooking and preparing meals for the upcoming days.
It’s a practical and rewarding way to ensure you have delicious and nutritious options ready to go, making your life easy-breezy!
involve others
A human needs another human. We are all social creatures and sharing our free time with others is not only enjoyable but also benefits our mental health.
These types of activities can be as follows:
- Making a phone call and chatting with a dear friend or relative
- Inviting a friend over for dinner or going out together
- Playing games with your family members
- Having a date night
get yourself outside
I can assure you that fresh air and a change of scenery work wonders for mental health. Being indoors is comfy, but it often turns you lethargic and lazy. Stepping outside is the easiest way to make your body more energized and your mind more clear.
So, instead of being a couch potato and binging on Netflix, you can:
- Go for a long walk,
- Ride a bike,
- Go on foot to the nearest store to get something you need,
- Spend some time on the balcony or terrace.
